How to find happiness not dependant on your partner!

Hi guys, I hope you are well and have an amazing time with your family! Today, I wanna write about emotional dependency and how you can overcome it. I’m writing this post cause I think most of us face it in our relationship and because we are immigrants we need to be strong especially if we have a kid. You know that’s not easy to do that considering it’s a challenge in your relationship and it’s hard to face it and the thing is probably you’re unaware of what happens.

If I want to explain more it looks like when he is in a bad mood you’re immidiately in bad mood regardless of how you actually feel or you always wait for your partner validatoin even for subtle matters or you make decision based on what your partner wants, … it’s a little bit tricky and I can’t say that I’m an independant person in my relationship but I try cause I feel better mentally. I think this is not a thing that happen in a night it takes time.

Now, how we can overcome it?

1. Learn more about yourself, get to know your mind

2. Look for what makes you happy and do not expect that someone will make you happy cause people are struggling in their own life.

3. If you are financially dependent on him, then work on getting a new job to be proud of yourself!

4. See what you can improve about yourself

5. Be positive and do not complain

Guys, I’m not a psychologist or consultant but I collected these information by searching and I’d like to share with you maybe this post could be helpful for at least a person. Be strong, Have a hope and love yourself!

Don’t forget to share your ideas on the comment box below and let me know your experience 🙂

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